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Examining Scars for Residual Disease

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Eat Those Fruits And Vegetables

Everyone who has been a healthcare provider at some point has a wrenching story that makes the cancer-free among us glad to be alive. Here's mine. As a medical student, I worked for a while in the breast cancer clinic. The first patient I saw was - are you ready for this? - a man. Few people know it, but men, too, succumb to this cancer. After I had participated in a discussion about bone marrow transplantation and high-dose chemotherapy with the patient, his wife, and the attending physician, I thought I was ready for anything. That was until I met a woman, who I'll call Sandra. Only sixteen years old, Sandra had been diagnosed with bilateral breast cancer the year before. After her diagnosis, she elected to have both breasts removed. I talked with Sandra, took a history, and completed an exam. When I reported to the attending, he said, "Great job, but you forgot to tell me about the breast exam." I smiled - was he joking? - and replied, "She has no breasts, sir." He looked at me and did not smile. "Are you sure that the surgeons removed 100% of the breast tissue during the mastectomy? Are you sure that there was no local invasion of breast cancer into the chest wall prior to the surgery? Are you sure that there is no way that there could be any local recurrence?" If you ever go to medical school, here's a hint: if a physician asks you, "Are you sure?", the correct answer is always, "No." In this case, "No" meant that five minutes and several deep breaths later I was breast examining a bilaterally mastectomized sixteen-year-old. Did you see the popular magazine cover some years ago that pictured a woman with a mastectomy scar? If so, then you might have some sense of the experience that I had with Sandra.

How can you avoid cancer? With breast cancer, the biggest risk is being female. The second biggest risk is if you have had breast cancer previously. Third, family history and several other relatively minor factors. Not much of that you have control over, though. So the best way to avoid cancer in general is to live a healthy life. For more on that, see the cardiovascular chapter. In a nutshell, study after study has demonstrated that a nutritious diet, plenty of exercise, and refraining from smoking dramatically increases the likelihood that you won't get cancer. Specifically, eat a high-fiber, low-fat, low-cholesterol diet with lots of fruits and vegetables; exercise by walking or by being in some other way physically active for half-an-hour or so several times per week; and don't smoke. For my litany on smoking, see the smoking chapter. All I'll say now is that far more people die from lung cancer, due to smoking, than any other cancer. There are other things that you can do to avoid cancer aside from the healthy life stuff. For example, wearing sunscreen and not excessively exposing yourself to ultraviolet radiation (i.e., "laying out") can help prevent skin cancer. Getting PAP smears, mammograms, and breast exams on a regular basis reduces cancer risk for women of certain ages. The same goes for men with the testicular exam. Self-examinations are important - ask your doctor to show you how.

Contrary to what many believe, cancer does not always end in death. I can count several friends of mine as survivors of cancer, and there's plenty of reason to believe that you too can beat this disease. But the likelihood that you'll survive cancer depends on the type of cancer and the stage of the disease. As far as cancer types go, for instance, Hodgkin's Disease and testicular cancer are often very curable cancers, whereas lung cancer and melanoma usually are not. Cancer is described in terms of severity by stage. There are four stages, summarized in a very general way in the table below. Please remember, though, that the stages differ from cancer to cancer, and survival differs from person to person.

 

 

  mole or nevus
 

IN THE NECK OF TIME

The neck shown here is outlined by the trapezius muscle on the right, the collarbone (clavicle) on the bottom, and the throat on the left. Note the mole. Fast-growing moles with irregular borders and funny colors (such as red, white, or blue) should be checked by your doctor for cancer. Mole cancer, a form of skin cancer called melanoma, is a particularly aggressive cancer, often metastasizing to the brain, so it pays to keep an eye on moles.

   

Stage
Basic Meaning
General Percent Survival Five Years After Diagnosis
I
Small amount of local disease
100% - 75%
II
Large amount of local disease
75% - 50%
III
Local disease and local lymph nodes and/or invasion into another nearby tissue
50% - 25%
IV
Metastatic disease (spread of cancer into tissues distant from the tissue of origin)
25% - 0%

 

blood study results

So if you have just been diagnosed with cancer, how you should approach the future depends on the type and stage of the cancer. Your doctor will tell you both.

Any discussion of cancer should include end-of-life issues. Cancer is a disease that is relatively slow at causing death compared to a sudden heart attack or stroke. But, many times, it is fairly clear at the time of diagnosis that a patient could die from cancer. A key with deadly aggressive cancers, like pancreatic cancer, or metastatic (spread) cancers, is to understand that, unless your oncologist firmly believes otherwise, death is often imminent. In my experience, patients who have accepted the severity of their disease are generally far happier in the long run than those patients who do not. I was rounding in the hospital once and there was a fifty-year-old pancreatic cancer patient who said, "Just keep me alive until two weeks from Tuesday. I need to sign some papers, and then I'm ready to go." We adjusted his morphine, he signed his papers, and then he went. He did it right. And by every measure I know, he went happily. Contrast this to patients who fight the inevitable and make themselves as well as everyone else around them miserable in doing so. Accepting certain death is undeniably tough, but the alternative is tougher. Easy for me to say, I guess.

An important point concerning end-of-life issues, and throughout most other topics as well, is the need to trust your doctor. Oncologists have seen hundreds of people die. For this reason, they can somewhat reliably predict when you are going to die if you have late-stage cancer. Likewise, neurologists can somewhat reliably predict when you are going to die if you have a severe stroke, cardiologists can generally predict end-of-life issues for heart failure or severe heart attack patients, and intensive care docs can often tell you who's going to walk out of the intensive care unit and who's not. I've found that end-of-life issues are much harder on the family than on the patient. That's why I favor living wills and do not resuscitate (DNR) orders. You should leave your relative's life/death decisions up to him or her, unless he or she is mentally incompetent or unconscious. If your doctor suggests that signing a DNR or a Do Not Intubate (DNI) or a withdrawal of support order is the humane thing to do, then it almost certainly is the most humane thing to do. In other words, your doctor is telling you that prolonging the life of your loved one would be inhumane. If your mom or dad or husband or wife or son or daughter is in a coma and moves when you speak or smiles one day, then that often means absolutely nothing. The best advice I can give you is follow your doctor's advice, given that she knows infinitely more about patient care and end-of-life issues than we do.

But back to cancer. I think that it's important to know how typical cancer drugs work, so that you can decide along with your doctor if you really want to take them. The first thing to know is that cancer drugs, called chemotherapy, are toxic as hell. Cancer cells are your own cells, so it is very difficult to kill your cancer cells without killing you as well. Chemotherapy works by killing cells that divide rapidly, which include your cancer, along with the cells that make your hair, the cells that line your gut, the cells that make white and red blood cells. That is why people taking chemotherapy lose their hair, vomit a lot of the time, and develop infections. Radiation works the same way and has similar effects. The point here is that treating cancer is debilitating in many cases. Consider the toxicity of chemotherapy, then, when your doctor says that there is only a small chance that you'll be cured.

STUDY THAT BLOOD

Your doctor will want to check your blood every once in a while to make sure that things like your cell counts aren't out of whack. Low red blood cells, or anemia, could mean too little iron or blood loss. High levels of white blood cells could mean infection or may suggest blood cancers such as lymphoma, leukemia, or multiple myeloma. At any rate, such routine studies are a good reason to see your doc on a regular basis.

 
   

 

 

 

Healthy practices such as a low-fat, high-fiber diet; exercising; wearing sunscreen; showing up for regular breast or testicular exams, mammograms, and Pap smears; and not smoking, reduce the risk of cancer. Whether someone survives cancer depends on the type of cancer, the stage of cancer, and the particular patient, among other things. Unfortunately, though, cancer is often deadly. If your doctor thinks that you or a loved one is going to die, then the odds are that is what will happen. Patients who have accepted their own deaths are generally far happier than those who have not. Chemotherapy and radiation treat cancer by killing cells that are dividing rapidly. But cancer treatments are toxic since many cells in your body, aside from cancer, divide rapidly.

 

 

What You Say

What Your Doctor is Thinking

I know mom has stage IV breast cancer that has spread to her lungs and brain, but I want the most aggressive treatment there is to try and save her. Is that what your mom really wants? If she doesn't die from the toxicity of the treatment, she will likely die from the cancer anyway.
If Lance Armstrong survived metastatic cancer, so can I. I want to do everything I can to beat this lung cancer. Testicular cancer is an exceptionally curable cancer. Lance was an exceptional athlete.
Dad smoked 2 packs of cigarettes a day for sixty years and never got lung cancer. He probably died of heart disease, which was accelerated due to cigarette smoking. If you smoke like that, odds are that you will get lung cancer.
I'm not feeling well and I have had a pain in my tummy for the past two days. I think that I might have cancer. Unlikely. Let's rule out other, more common causes, like gastritis or viral disease.

 

 

 

 
 

1. Feel good about what you are doing to minimize your risk of cancer: eating and exercising healthily, wearing sunscreen, and kicking the smoking habit.

2. Feel good about what you are doing to detect cancer early: getting mammograms and Pap smears, performing self breast or testicular exams, and asking your doctor to check out (look at, not biopsy) suspicious moles.

3. Trust your doctor about end-of-life issues. That is, don't flog yourself or your relatives unnecessarily.

4. Remember that chemotherapy and radiation are toxic and often don't even work. If your doctor thinks that they're overkill, then think seriously about whether you want to try and save yourself and your loved ones anyway.

 

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Three years ago after being post menuposal for 6 years I began to bleed. I went to the doctor and after numerous tests and biopsies it was determined that i had large fibroids that were not malignant. A historctomy was scheduled After the operation it was found that I had a sarcoma deep within the fibroid. I immediately started 8 courses of chemo followed by 28 radiation treatments. Everything seemed very good.Then in routine tests after 6 months nodules were found in my lungs A broncostrophy and needle biopsy were negative but chemo was started anyway. After a couple of other combinations a combo of Taxol and Cisplatin eliminated the nodules. After 4 months they returned. I am now on the reginim again and it seems to be working again. Other than neuropathy from the taxol I am in good shape but sometimes I wonder if it is worth it to keep going on with this

-- Carole Baptista, July 31, 2000

 

Look, People diagnosed with cancer don't want to think like a doctor... Your site picks certain cancers and gives people absolutely no hope of survival... My father is 48 years old and fighting Stage IV Pancreatic Cancer that has spread into his lungs... Gemzar got rid of 75% of the problem, no thanks to the 'doctors' who told him that he would be gone after 6 months... He's going on month 8 and feeling better than ever... I guess the point I'm making is that the doctor should by no means sugar coat things, but at the same time, not think that something is a death sentance at diagnosis. Going happy isn't an option for my father who has me, a 17 year old and a 13 year old at home, and simply keeping him alive for a few weeks isn't something we want. A doctor will never know the burden of cancer unless they get the bad stuff, and I read all the statistics. I'm sure if a doctor reads this message, they'll mark my father off as dead. That's fine, because being trained that people die from this, no questions asked, gives patients no hope of survival... We live with hope, as many others do, and I'm afraid that your site may look too much at the negativity of cancer. I am in no way trying to pick apart what I've read, but I just believe that you shouldn't write off cancer patients with Metastatic disease... I remind you the story of Dodee Osteen, a pastors wife in Houston who beat Metastatic Liver Cancer with no chemotherapy (actually, no treatment at all). And yes, it was cancer. She beat it with hope. Clark

-- Clark, July 17, 2001

 

REMEMBER, you are the customer when seeing a doctor. DO NOT LET THEM not ANSWER ALL YOUR QUESTIONS. Do not let them ignore your families questions. Doctors are too busy seeing patients and running a business to LEARN new things. Many of them NEVER even try to learn anything after Med school-even when new info is splashed across the covers of THEIR journals.

-- Bill, November 11, 2001

 

I think everyone going through cancer has to face the fact they may die. My husband is 34 and has a very rare sarcoma. Of course death enters your mind when you have cancer, but I would encourage everyone to try and spend more time on thinking about life than death. Randy has gone through 3 major surgeries and chemo along with brain radiation. He now has mets to one lung and the pancrease. He feels fine, no symptoms at all. Dr's have told us he will die from this cancer and refused to offer treatment. Dr's are not always right,they are not god. We have not given up, and have weighed the options. Sure chemo is toxic, and radiation has it's effects but what quality of life do you have knowing you are not doing something to try to live??? For Randy we have now found a dr who will treat him and she told us the dr who said he was dying was misinformed. I guess I'm saying don't give up. There are always more than one dr out there. Keep the faith and I offer you all much hope.

-- Jody, March 20, 2002

 

In July, 2001 my husband started feeling ill while we were on vacation. When we got home he went to the doctor and was told he had fluid around his heart. They drained one liter of fluid from the pericardial sac. They said it was caused by a viral infection. He was fine after that until October. He started having trouble breathing and felt like he had the flu. The fluid had come back. This time they said they had to find out where it was coming from and discovered a mass behind his heart. He had metastatic lung cancer that had spread to the pericardial sac. I got a second opinion and was told the same thing, but the cancer had also spread to his brain. His doctors scheduled him for radiation and chemo without even discussing it with us first. My husband passed away in December. He was onlyy 47 and didn't smoke. I guess it was better this way because he didn't suffer long. The doctors had no hope for him. Because they had no hope they wouldn't even try. His doctor didn't want him to know how bad he was because he said it wouldn't be good for his morale. If you have to deal with this, remember communicate with each other and tell the doctors what you want to do. Ask questions. Talk to the nurses. Nurses give you more information than the doctors do.

Barb, July, 2002

-- Barb, July 11, 2002

 

I'm 22 years old now from Iran,I found a small painless lump on my right testis 12 years ago,this lump got bigger during two years but it has stopped after that.

it has not changed in size and even i have not pain in any parts of my body and i'm completely health.

please tell me that it is only benign or not? or if it's cancerous ,is it possible to live during 12 years?

thanks

22 Aguest 2002

-- Arya, August 22, 2002

 

Lung Cancer: Even though I understand that my mother is terminally ill with lung cancer and COPD, her M.D. suggested radiation (hospital trips, esophagitis, etc, etc, etc) and possibly chemo, saying due to bleeding of the lung tumor we would be "begging" for it. There is a new therapy called PDT that does not prolong the life of the person but makes them more comfortable and has relatively few side effects. If you are faced with a terminally ill lung cancer patient, I think it is worth looking into- she did breathe easier after her therapy.

-- Anonymous, February 28, 2003

 

i got operated and they took out a tumor but they have me confused becused they dont know if it iscancerouse or not and the tumor weighed 20lbs and now they are going to give me an exam that they put something like a camera in my butt and throat and i had saved all the hair that has been falling off like if im going to do a ponytail on my hair hair comes out and i dont even feel it i have a little ziplock bag full of my hair and i am writing to you to see if you have any opinions of what i have and also ideas because iam really worried could i die?

-- josefina rodriguez, November 17, 2003

 

i have a mole which has become blotchy and grown by approx 50% - saw my dr about it and she advised me to go back in 4weeks to see if it's changed - i left the surgery feeling as if she had not taken it very seriously - should i be worried?

-- C, March 21, 2005

 

am a 18 year old boy and at the same time am a somker,so please i need to know what i can do after somking or take, so that i can be alive.

THANKS

-- paul, April 5, 2005

 

I watched my dad die from prostate cancer that had metastasized to his bones before he was diagnosed.

He continued to live life on his own terms, went through treatments, but never stopped living life to it's fullest.

When initially diagnosed, they gave him 6 months to 18 months to live; he valiantly battled for 5 years.

Never give up hope, never stop trying, but also acceptance of the situation and facing it head on is what I learned from my father. He lived and died with bravery and dignity; priceless lessons his children, grandchildren, and all those close to him learned and carry with us daily.

Unfortunately one of my closest friends is currently dying in the hospital, also from cancer. He was diagnosed 15 months ago and although he's had radiation, chemo, etc, cancer is taking him as well.

Although it is such a cruel fate to be given a death sentence from cancer, both of these men were/are so brave in their battles, the life lessons that we, the living, have learned from them are immeasurable.

In closing, cancer may take many things from us, but it can never take away the desire to live and to love and the legacies they leave behind once they've passed. Cancer is a temporary existence, but the human spirit and determination are immortal.

-- Mary Sigsworth, April 17, 2005

 

My father was 68 years old and had a mole in his back since he was young. that mole got bigger twice its old size. We then took him to the doctor who told us that it is a skin cancer Malignant melanoma due to the exposure of the sun when my father was at a very young age. That was in Dec. 2004, my father went into surgery and removed it. then he went and made another operation to remove the cancer from the lymph nodes. he made four operations in the lymph nodes then they had to make radiation therapy to stop the cancerous cells. Unfortunately, in Nov. 2005, my father has a bleeding in his head and it turned out that it was due to a tumor. Doctor informed us that cancer has penetrated the body and it si now in the brain and stomach. he passed away on Jan. 29, 2005. it was not easy at all and believe me in his fight against cancer nothing could comfort him other than his good belief in God and that this life is only the beginnig not the end. Believing in God and in Heaven by keep doing good deeds to everybody could only comfort you and dying is not the end of the world. My dad was a true muslim.

-- abdallah, April 20, 2005

 

my father has just been diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer that has gone into his spine and other parts of his bones. He has had a biopsy and a bone scan and the outcome was that his gleason score is 8 and the cancer grading is 4 to 5. He was told by his specialist that he has had the cancer for about 15 years which we were horrified to find out. My father has been going to his local GP for the last 2 years with problems with his prostate and until recently have done nothing. The only reason they have done something now is because my Father insisted that he felt there was something wrong so they did a psa blood test. When this came back his psa level was at 58.What I find very difficult to come to terms with is how can something like this go unnoticed? He is starting a course of hormone tablets and then hormone therapy injections next week. I know this is a difficult question to answer but how long do you thing my father has to live?. At the moment he is relatively fit and healthy he is just suffering a little pain in his back. Fortunately my Father has always been very active and even at the age he is now 67years he walks about 5 miles a day. Myself ,my Husband and our two boys have just emigrated to Canada to live and my parents are still in the U.K. As you can imagine I am absolutely devasted about this news, but I keep giving my Father very positive thoughts as I am also a cancer survivor of Hurtle cell Thyroid Cancer from three years ago.If you can offer any advise I would be most grateful

-- angela hirst, May 20, 2005

 

Cancer is such a horrible disease. I lost someone very close to me w/ multiple myeloma (a bone cancer). Shortly thereafter, I lost my father from lung cancer; and less than a year from that, I lost a dear friend due to a very rare, fast-acting and/or fast-growing brain tumor. All three loved-ones had to endure the chemo and radiation treatments. I watched my loved ones deteriate before my eyes. I have often wondered if it was the cancer itself, or the chemo treatments that caused them to deteriate so rapidly. Now here I am, only 4 1/2 years from my father's passing, and my mother has just recently been diagnosed with a brain tumor. A pituitary macroadenomia which is located near the pituitary gland and has also been located in the cavernous sinus, which is located behind her eyes. From what I understand, this is going to be a complicated surgery, and inspite of people's initial opinions of doctors, certain medicines, etc., I have to keep my faith on my Heavenly Father and His love, strength, and mercy. He has the healing powers, and if it is His will, my mother will survive this. He gave the doctors the education, knowledge, skills, and materials to help extend our lives, and/or make us as comfortable as possible during our pain and sufferings, and I have learned not to criticise the very ones who truly try to help, or question the Lord when the chosen time has come. I believe there will be a day that we will all understand many things that we have difficulties in understanding now. All I can say is to pray for yourselves, pray for your loved-ones, and your doctors, and ask that the Lord work through you and through them to fulfill His will. Have faith and believe in Him. Trust and hope gives you that sense of peace, and the courage to be strong either for yourself and/or others. God Bless you all and may your lives be joyous in good times as well as in times of sadness and sorrow. May all of you find that contentment and completeness that we all seek in life.

-- Believer and Friend, December 19, 2005

 

My mom was diagnosed with Stage IV Pancreatic Cancer at the end of June 2006 and was told by the Oncologist that there was nothing that could be done at this stage since the disease had mestatized to the liver. He said we could try GemZar but even that does not have a high rate for this disease in this late stage; Has anyone heard about LDN (Low Dose Naltrexone) and its effect on cancer cells and the immune system in general; Please respond

-- Anonymous, August 26, 2006

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
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